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10 Life Experiences to Try Before Turning 40
- Cristina Grati
- Apr 30
- 3 min read
A soulful guide to becoming your boldest, brightest self
Turning 40 is a significant milestone, marking a period of self-discovery and growth. As we approach this age, it's an opportune time to reflect on experiences that enrich our lives and shape our identities. Here are ten life experiences to consider embracing before hitting the big 4-0.
1. Own Your Time Like It’s Gold
There comes a moment in life when you stop being busy for others and start being intentional for yourself. Time isn’t just hours—it’s energy. Protect it.
Example: Say no to one event this week and spend that time walking barefoot in the grass with your favorite playlist.
2. Move Away—Even Just Once
Leaving your comfort zone is like giving your soul a passport. Whether it’s a new city or country, distance gifts you perspective, independence, and a fresh version of you.
Example: Move to a new place for 3 months—even if it’s just two towns away. Watch how much you change.
3. Find a Ritual That Connects Your Body and Soul
Yoga, dance, long walks at sunset—anything that reminds you your body is a home, not a project. Movement heals. Stillness teaches. Choose both.
Example: Start your mornings with 10 minutes of stretching and silence. Watch how it changes your entire day.
4. Outgrow the People Who Drain You
It’s brave to let go of friendships or relationships that feel heavy. Love doesn’t always mean staying. Choose peace over pleasing.
Example: Quietly release the friend who always leaves you second-guessing yourself. That space will soon feel like air.
5. Learn to Nourish Yourself
Cooking isn’t just survival—it’s self-respect. There’s something sacred in feeding yourself a meal made with love. You deserve that kind of care.
Example: Pick one recipe from your childhood and learn it perfectly. Make it your signature dish.
6. Travel Alone—And Don’t Apologize for It
Solitude is a mirror. A solo trip, even a weekend getaway, can be deeply clarifying. You’ll discover how much you like your own company.
Example: Book a cozy Airbnb by the water, take yourself out to dinner, and journal under the stars.
7. Create Something Just for You
Not for likes. Not for money. Just for joy. Paint, write, sculpt, garden—whatever makes your heart beat louder.
Example: Start a scrapbook of your dreams. Fill it with magazine clippings, quotes, and photos of who you’re becoming.
8. Give Without Expecting
Volunteer. Donate. Help someone in silence. Giving is the fastest way to remember how much you already have.
Example: Spend a morning at a local shelter, or write kind letters to women in prison through a nonprofit. Feel your heart soften.
9. Be a Beginner Again
Learn something completely new. Let yourself stumble. Let it be awkward. Growth lives just past that first shaky step.
Example: Try a pottery class or learn a language you’ve always loved the sound of. Be delightfully bad at it.
10. Slow Down and Look Inward
Life moves fast. But your soul needs slowness. Carve out time to ask, “Am I living the life I want—or just the one I’ve settled into?”
Example: Set aside one evening a month to reflect with a journal, candles, and no distractions. Call it your ‘Check-In Ritual.’
Final Thought
Your 40s are not a deadline—they’re a doorway. These experiences are not tasks to complete, but invitations to deepen your connection with yourself.
You’re not running out of time.You’re arriving in your power.
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